Inga M Writer

"icherry efuna ubhejwa izotshatwa ngutatayo" Ekse, there is a fundamental hypocrisy in how society views a man's worth in relation to relationships. Indoda engabhejiyo izolala nomamayo.  A man without financial means is often told he deserves no one.  Yet, after years of intense effort and building himself up from nothing, the expectation suddenly shifts. Upon achieving success and start earning, he is told he must now be loyal to one partner. He is called " inja '' when he is dating multiple girls. Why? After being devalued for so long, why is the prize for his hard work has a limitation now?  It's fair to reject a man for being broke, but it's equally fair for that man, once successful, to enjoy the full range of options that his newfound status affords him. So, let me get this straight. When a guy is broke, he's not good enough for anyone. But after grinding for years, putting in the blood, sweat, and tears to make something of himself, he'...

I’ve been a huge Nicki Minaj fan for years, and to be honest, I’ve always connected with her because I got into hip hop through Lil Wayne. I started as a fan of him, then moved on to Drake, and from there, Nicki was right alongside them as part of that powerhouse trio. For me, she’s always been the rap queen, no question about it. But lately, the constant feuds she’s been involved in — with everyone from Latto and Lil’ Kim, to SZA, Megan Thee Stallion, and Cardi B — have really made me rethink my stance. It’s clear now that there’s a pattern, and I’m starting to realize that maybe Nicki herself is part of the problem. As much as I love her music, it’s hard to ignore that it seems like every time a female artist is doing well, she’s got something negative to say. I respect her as an artist, but I can’t ignore the fact that the way she handles conflict with these women isn’t just drama — it’s getting toxic. I’ve tried to defend her, but I drew the line when she spoke negatively about Car...

The clash between Anele Mdoda and Helen Zille was a masterclass in two different worlds colliding, and for me, it highlighted the fundamental difference between a journalist's duty and a politician's expectation.  Anele was not just asking questions; she was acting as a mirror, reflecting the legitimate anxieties and perceptions of a significant portion of the South African public. Her questions were sharp, direct, and rooted in the very real context of Zille's past statements and public persona. She was doing her job: holding a powerful figure accountable, not just for her policy positions, but for the trust she is asking the public to place in her. Zille, on the other hand, seemed to arrive with an air of entitlement, a pre-conceived notion of how the conversation should proceed. She wanted to be treated with the deference of a head of state, or at the very least, a senior political figure whose credentials should not be questioned in a "casual" setting. Her fru...

This wasn't just an interview; it was a calculated performance.  Let's be real, The Breakfast Club is one of the very few platforms that has continued to give Dame Dash a stage, helping to revive his career and keep him relevant in the public eye. And what does he do? He comes on and crashes the very people who have helped him. But I think I know why. This is all about clout. Dame Dash understands that controversy sells, and he took full advantage of this moment to pop out and show niggas. His last big moment was on The Breakfast Club years ago, and he's repeating the same playbook.  He's not just there to promote a book or a show; he's there to correct the narrative that's been following him for over a decade. For years, the talk has been that when Jay-Z left Roc-A-Fella, Dame Dash failed and went broke. He's been living under that shadow. This interview was his way of trying to end that rumor once and for all. By going on the offensive, he's taking con...