Indoda engabhejiyo izolala nomamayo, slogan soMarhosha‼️

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"icherry efuna ubhejwa izotshatwa ngutatayo"





Ekse, there is a fundamental hypocrisy in how society views a man's worth in relation to relationships. Indoda engabhejiyo izolala nomamayo. A man without financial means is often told he deserves no one. 

Yet, after years of intense effort and building himself up from nothing, the expectation suddenly shifts. Upon achieving success and start earning, he is told he must now be loyal to one partner. He is called "inja'' when he is dating multiple girls. Why? After being devalued for so long, why is the prize for his hard work has a limitation now? 

It's fair to reject a man for being broke, but it's equally fair for that man, once successful, to enjoy the full range of options that his newfound status affords him.

So, let me get this straight. When a guy is broke, he's not good enough for anyone. But after grinding for years, putting in the blood, sweat, and tears to make something of himself, he's suddenly supposed to lock it down with one person?

Seriously? Mxm imagine spending your life being told you're worthless, only to finally become "worthy" and be handed a rulebook. Nah. If you don't want me at my lowest, you can't dictate my choices at my peak. 

Once I'm up, I've earned the right to choose my own path, with as many girls as I want.

The goalposts can't just shift when it suits others, chini amacherry ayanya I'm not gonna be living by their rules mna. Majita wake up, sanuba weak niqhathwe ngamacherry!

Amacherry chose ubangomarhosha babhatalwe for isex, balandela amadoda anemali. Now I indonda anemali xa ingafuni ulock in noMarhosha yiyo "inja'' ngcoske ‼️

Ndivele ndi'feel sorry xandibona i'outie who figured everything out but iLoyal kwipartner eyi'one. I can only understand xa usuka naye kude, the only woman I can be loyal to; is the one who was with me ndingenanto and who held me down and respected me throughout darkest days! Not njer umntu othe vumbu yonke into seyi'right, I don't care noba angaza neLoyalty engakanani, voetseck!!... 


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